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    EASY WAYS TO INVOLVE YOUR PARTNER INTO PARENTHOOD

    A partner to share the ups and downs with. Honor and strength, and knowing you’re stronger together than apart.

    -Donna Alward

    Parenting is quite tough when you deal it by all alone. Some mom used to struggle much between the house chores and the baby. Are you a new mom apart from home? During that kind of uncontrollable pressure she needs some physical and mental leisure hour. Do you agree?? If you are one of them, then this post is all for you.  Let’s get into the topic without any delay:-

    How do you think you could come out of, this kinda stress overload without anyone’s help? I guess, you cannot.. Because, life is all about, as I said earlier, sharing ups and downs between each other. To whom do you think you can share your most vital duty which is parenting, to be with? No one comes to my mind except our partner (spouse).

    They are the one who can get to see all your struggles to manage the entire house with the baby. As the word itself clearly mean, partner is someone who shares everything between each other. So father has an equal amount of responsibility in children’s growth.

    Time has changed far better. Earlier,it was like, the woman or mom only needs to take care of her babies. Fathers who are  involving in parenthood is treated like an insult to the male class. How stupid!!! Thank god, we are not living in that period now. Today’s fathers are really doing their good jobs in parenthood. So proud and happy about today’s fathers. Bravo pappas👏

    Moving on to the topic now,, Here we are going to take a look about some works in which father can show their helping hand to the mommy.

    Eating/Feeding:-

    Many parents’ most biggest task to get accomplished is this eating or feeding task only, I Guess. How many of you agrees with me?? I can imagine everyone of you who are reading this post would feels the same. Having said that, why this toughest job to be done only by mammas all the time🤔? Father can take this opportunity to show their real talent with loads of love through feeding them. Babies/kids also won’t get bored at all the time by the same person. They would feel the change and who knows, miracles can happen by completing it fast 😱. Do you want to miss that chance? Think deeply about it 😀.

    Bathing:-

    Many parents think bathing is the very risky work. I will tell you something,  you have given birth to your baby with the loads of risk factors, is there anything else beyond that to feel risky. No right!! So, anything with the appropriate safety measures does not lead to any risky elements. Be confident enough to involve the daddys into the super fun activity called bathing. Note: (mammas do supervise them both for safer side🧐)

    Sleeping:-

    Here comes the next work to prove yourself. It is also an easy task when you plan your babies/kids activities accordingly. Feed your kids enough, play for some time and go for sleep .It is the most sweetest time with your kids. I enjoy this time with my kids. I also recommend all the fathers over there not to miss this wonderful bedtime with your little prince or princess. If you have not read my post on How to make your kids bedtimes easy & effortless Please do check out and get to know more things briefly. I guess, it would be helpful to you.

    I have mentioned this in my many blogs. I would like to mention it in this blog too. Kids grows faster. The thing which we are thinking now as annoying would become the most longing and memorable thing when our kids gets older. So always never ever miss the every single opportunity you get to be with your kids. Last but not the least, parenthood is truly a blessing for every parents. So, both the father and mother cherish it to the core.

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    ARE YOU A NEW MOM APART FROM HOME???

    “A baby makes love stronger, the days shorter, the nights longer, savings smaller and a home happier”

    Mom’s work time is as we all know it’s 24/7. No one can deny with this.  Experience is the best teacher. Every mom used to learn parenting by error and trial method only when they are first time mom. New moms have humungous challenges especially when they are apart from their homes. They need to act like a superman, sorry a superwoman 😜. That too, if they are alone, the struggles of a new moms cannot be described in actual words. Many new moms are living apart from their families inspite of work. I hope this post would be  helpful to those who struggles between the baby and the house chores. Let’s move onto the topic right here!!

    You will never know when your baby would poop, puke or becomes cranky to make you full busy by leaving all other stuffs in which you were involved completely. You have no options for that kind of situation. Because babies are your bosses. Yes, you read it right!! We have to run to them even when we are in restroom🤐. Because we are the only person to look after them when we are living apart. Sound sad but truth.

    Everything becomes easy when we plan or organize things according to our lifestyle. So let’s all take a look at some of the tips to ease your frustrating chores.

    Make a do to list:-


    Making a list for any purpose is definitely useful for the restless results. So here it works out great, if you list out all the activities or schedule for the next day. It will be easy for you in the morning, to complete your tasks one after the other straight away without confusing or forgetting.

    Wake up before your baby:-

    Some moms have this habit of sleeping till baby wakes up and start to cry out loud. They will get up with the baby and starts their brushing, bathing works. After finishing all these personal rituals, the baby will look like an alien child with uncontrollable hunger. Do you think, heading to the kitchen after all this big disaster, makes your day a good start🤔?? A big Nooo.. Right!!!

    If you does not need all these drama, you have a better option. Wake up early before your baby does and finish all your personal rituals and starts your day right after it. It will be more relaxing and refreshing morning to you as well. And also,,

    • Finish your cooking in the morning itself to save time for the rest of the busy day. 
    • It is good to eat before your baby wakes up. Because you are the one who are going to handle the entire thing. So first of all, you need to have a sound health and energy. Make a habit of eating when your baby sleeps itself.

    Once your baby wakes up, embrace them and have a cuddle time. Make a soothing bath, feed enough and its playing time . Spent your precious time with your baby without stressing about the lunch work or any other stuffs. 

    Feeding:-

    Always monitor the feeding time and be prepared to feed your baby before they starts cranky. Take more than enough time to fill your babies or toddlers tummy with nutritious food. Babies with full stomach tends to sleep more.

    Nap Time:-

    Now it’s nap time (nap time differs for each baby, you plan according to your babies nap times 😊) darken the room with closed curtains and make a cozy feel with a nice soft blanket. The ambience makes the baby to sleep sound (sometimes the moms too😜) Rest for some time during that period and starts your remaining house chores like cleaning, washing etc. Note: sometimes things might not go well with the babies. Do not be alarmed. It happens for everyone. So follow on your track.

    Make sure of safety measurements:-


    Being alone with the babies needs more focus about nook and corner of your house. Always be alert with the babies and the things which are around them. Let’s take some examples,

    • No small sized toys or fur toys.
    • No sharp toys
    • No charger or electric sockets nearby, out of babies reach
    • Make sure of sharp edges in the furniture
    • Make sure of doors and windows when it is opened, put a standby lock or small wash cloth on the top of the door to avoid sudden shutting when baby is inside or hands inbetween of the gaps.
    • Make sure of the bathroom door be closed.
    • Mainly kitchen area, make sure of no knives, scissors, mixi or heavy utensils out of babies reach.
    • Avoid dumping unnecessary things, it creates dust which is not good for babies when they reach out there.

    And last but not the least,

    “You will always be your child’s favorite toy.”

    So spend more times by playing and cuddling instead of sinking into the house chores. Kids grows so fast. As we cannot get this  moments back again , I do not want you to miss  this precious period with your baby. Let’s cherish the motherhood.

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    WHAT?? WHERE?? HOW?? WHY??

    “The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.”

    – Albert Einstein

    I am a mom of a 6 year old smart boy. Me and my son always have conversations of different topics. We almost discuss each and everything we get to see. I am not a parenting expert, but I am the one who always loves parenting. Parenting is not a complicative thing in which one needs to master it for becoming an expert instead, it is all about involving yourself completely with your kids and grow with them. Let’s get into the topic!!!

    As the cliche goes, children asks hundreds of questions per day and we parents, have to answer every question of them. It might sound very simple but it plays a major role in your children’s growth. I agree, there are many parents out there who are taking this as a serious thing and they are doing their job to the fullest. But everyone are not the same. Some parents might not get appropriate situations. It may help to some, I guess.

    My son always comes up with a different question each time. He does not bother about the time or place to ask his bunch of questions. Sometimes, he used to raise his questions even when I was running out of time to school or to catch the cab. But I won’t ignore his questions at anytime. I will take a break from my work and answer his questions. It may not possible at all the times. But you can ask your kids to give some time if you can’t engage with them at that moment and can answer them later (but definitely later).

    The question can be simple or complicated. For example, Why the crow is black?? Or How does we reach the sky?? Whatever might be the question. The matter is not ignoring them. I mean, both your kids and theirs questions.

    (Not all) some parents , used to feel irritated for their children’s repeated questions and shouts at them. Let’s say a big “No” to this. Always try to think from your kids angle and give a company to their curiosity. Some parents used to worry about this attitude in their kids character. Those parents needs to worry only if theirs kids were not doing so. Thats sound serious to look at them.

    Parents have to feed their children’s knowledge seeking interest at home first. Home is their first school and we are theirs first teachers until they enter into the world of school education. If we show lethargic in the initial stage and suppress all their question raising skills, then what is the matter of expecting them to be smarter or active in the school? At that moment, we fail in our parenting at the first level.

    So let’s not wait for our children to ask question in our break time. Instead, let’s take some break for 2 minutes and answer their questions. It will definitely make a change in your child’s growth one day. 

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